Wasn’t that a party?

Wasn’t that a party?

I know that I am not unique in this regard, but fantasy was a large part of my addictive behaviours. The sights and situations that I saw in real life which became the small foundational pieces for hours of derived fantasy adventures were at times limitless. There is...
Collateral Damage

Collateral Damage

Remember those old commercials about drinking and driving, where they would stack one empty glass in front of another to simulate some of the impairment that occurs while under the influence of alcohol? It doesn’t take long before everything becomes blurry and...
Diving In The Deep End

Diving In The Deep End

Bottom. Rock bottom. A rocky bottom in a pit so deep you can barely see the light at the surface. How did I get here? I did not hit bottom by standing too close to an old well, tumbling over the edge in a sudden free-fall to the depths below. It was not that quick,...
Being a ‘Good’ Addict

Being a ‘Good’ Addict

I’m a recovering sex addict. In my personal recovery journey, I have been in individual therapy, group therapy and 12-Step fellowships. I’ve worked through the 12-Steps twice, so far.. I have journaled and written a great deal during this time, mostly for my benefit,...
Good Reasons to Stay with a Sex Addict

Good Reasons to Stay with a Sex Addict

9 Good Reasons to Stay with a Sex Addict By Linda Hatch, PhD Source: 9 Good Reasons to Stay with a Sex Addict | The Impact of Sex Addiction I do not take sides on the issue of whether it is better to stay in a marriage or committed relationship with a sex addict or...